Music, Memories, and Meaningful Moments

Dementia may change how someone communicates or interacts, but it doesn’t erase who they are. At the James L. West Center for Dementia Care, we know that moments of joy, identity, and connection are still possible—and often, they come to life through music.

A powerful example of this is the journey of country music legend Glen Campbell. Known not just for his solo hits like “Gentle on My Mind” and “By the Time I Get to Phoenix,” Campbell’s musical genius extended behind the scenes as a studio musician, contributing to recordings by the Beach Boys, Elvis Presley, Frank Sinatra, and more.

His life reminds us that even in the midst of dementia, talents and personality can shine through in remarkable ways.

In the later stages of his dementia journey, Glen Campbell continued performing. Though he occasionally forgot lyrics or lost track of where he was, he still lit up the stage with his presence, guitar work, and, perhaps most importantly, his connection with his audience.

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What mattered most wasn’t perfection—it was presence. The audience responded with loving appreciation for the genius that still revealed itself through his music.

Music as a Bridge to Connection At James L. West, we see these moments every day. Our caregivers and life enrichment team integrate music therapy into daily routines with residents and Adult Senior Day Program participants.

Whether it’s a YouTube clip of Elvis or Frank Sinatra or a live musical performance, something beautiful happens when music plays. People tap their feet and hum along. And they smile.

The viewed performance is not just entertainment; it’s emotional recall. Music connects us to our memories, our identity, and our past relationships.

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Glen Campbell’s final recording, “I’m Not Gonna Miss You,” written as a farewell to his loved ones during his dementia journey, is a touching reminder that people living with dementia still have something to say. His music told his story when words became harder to find.

Beyond Music: The Power of Familiarity and Joy Music is just one of many tools that can awaken joy in people living with dementia. At the West Center, we often see moments of clarity and happiness sparked by:

· Creative expression – Drawing or painting can awaken sensory memories for those who once found joy in art.

· Cooking and familiar scents – The aroma of gingerbread, turkey, or even freshly baked cookies can transport someone to warm holiday memories with family from many years back.

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· Games and play – Simple board games, checkers, or puzzles can unlock treasured memories and spark engagement.

· Television classics, vintage magazines, and familiar keepsakes – Whether it’s the sound of a familiar theme song, the pages of a well-worn magazine, or the sight of a once-favorite household item, these sensory cues can spark recognition and connection.

A visit to the James L. West Senior Day Program recently saw over 40 participants eagerly watching reruns of comedy with “The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson.”

When announcer Ed McMahon concluded his introduction with, “Heeeeeeeere’s Johnnnnnnnny,” the crowd erupted and gleefully shouted, “Heeeeeeeere’s Johnnnnnnnny,” along with him. Their faces bore huge smiles, and they laughed as if they were sitting in the audience.

They were able to reminisce on a time of happiness and laughter that brings feelings of joy and satisfaction. These experiences don’t “bring someone back” because they never truly left. Instead, they help us meet the person where they are, tapping into the parts of their identity that still shine through.

Dementia Doesn’t Diminish a Person’s Worth At James L. West, we teach that a person with dementia is not a problem to be solved; rather, that person is someone to be loved and nurtured. This is a life to be honored and supported.

With the right approach, families can experience magical, joy-filled moments, even in the face of change. Whether through music, shared laughter, or simple daily rituals, these moments affirm the enduring humanity of every person we serve.

We invite families and caregivers to explore these opportunities for connection and joy—and to remember that even when words fade, love and music remain.

About Jaime Cobb-Tinsley Jaime joined the James L. West Center for Dementia Care in 2011 after two years in Outreach & Education at the Alzheimer’s Family Services Center. As the Vice President of Community & Caregiver Education, she has developed over 110 modules of dementia-focused training. In addition to speaking throughout the Fort Worth-Dallas area, she also presents at state and national conferences on dementia and caregiving.

About the James L. West Center for Dementia Care For 32 years, the James L. West Center for Dementia Care, a not-for-profit organization, has served those impacted by dementia. Established by Eunice West in honor of her late husband, James L. West, who passed away from dementia, the Center continues to build on its excellence in compassionate care and caregiver and dementia education by expanding its service lines to meet the community’s needs. The Center offers residential care, a Senior Day Program, Short-Term Respite Care, Short-Term Rehabilitation, and professional and family caregiver education, which was recently rebranded as Dementia-IQ Powered by James L. West.

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